Here is the 411 for everyone to understand...Happiness is not for the chosen few, it's for the few who choose.
You must choose to be happy. It is not choosing to be fake or to fake it til you make it. It is to choose the positive side of every situation.
There are two sides to every single situation we find ourselves in. This is truth. One side of the road is the positive view and the other is the negative.
The old story about the two shoe sales man is very appropriate for this point i am making. One shoe salesman went to Africa and called home and said "I'm coming home, no one here wears shoes. Another sales man went to Africa and called home and said "Send me all of the shoes you have no one here has shoes."
How do you look at you life? Do you look at your circumstances and find yourself blaming others for where yo find yourself?
Another eye opener is that it is no one else's responsibility to make you feel loved or happy or successful. It is up to you and your desire to succeed and experience joy,
There are a few little golden nuggets that I can share that will hep you.
Also, on my Just Be Happy course, you can take a 21 day course for just a dollar a day to get you on the road to experiencing happiness. You will find that at www.honestyacademy.com/courses
One golden nugget is to love yourself. What is one thing that you like about yourself. Concentrate on that one thing. How can you use it to help others feel loved or important?
Contact me at cindy@honestyacademy.com and share with me some of your thoughts and I will send you back more golden nuggets.
Happiness is a choice.